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你到底會不會聊天？

Do You Even Know How to Chat? 很會說話，不一定就討人喜歡。有時候，滔滔不絕很容易被視為囉嗦、霸道、甚至武斷。當我們急著表達自己的觀點，往往忽略了溝通的本質。 Being articulate doesn't always translate into being likable. Sometimes, an eager and constant stream of talk can be easily perceived as verbose, domineering, or even arbitrary. When we rush to state our own viewpoints, we often neglect the very essence of communication. 溝通是雙向的藝術。它需要互動，才能達成共識，甚至最終解決問題。在現代職場和人際關係中，我們追求的不再只是資訊的傳遞，更重要的是情緒價值（Emotional Value）的交換與共鳴。 Communication is a two

當代的溝通藝術

解讀人性的顏色：《與白痴為伍》的溝通智慧

The Colors of Human Nature: Communication Wisdom from Surrounded by Idiots 托馬斯·埃里克森（Thomas Erikson）的暢銷書《與白痴為伍》（ Surrounded by Idiots ）為我們提供了一個理解人際互動的簡潔框架。這本書採用了 DISC （支配、影響、穩定、順從）模型，將人們的行為模式劃分為四種基本顏色：紅、黃、綠、藍。其核心理念並不是要為任何人貼上「白痴」的標籤，而是提醒我們，當他人行為與我們預期不同時，往往不是因為他們惡意，而是因為他們「說著不同的語言」。 Thomas Erikson's bestseller, Surrounded by Idiots , offers a straightforward framework for understanding interpersonal dynamics. Using the DISC model (Dominance, Influence, Steadiness, Conscien

當代的溝通藝術

溝通前，先照照鏡子吧！

Before You Speak, Take a Look in the Mirror! 從小到大，我們總被教導：「外表不重要，要注重內涵。」這句話的本意是好的，鼓勵我們培養內在修養；然而，在當代的溝通藝術中，這句話顯然被誤解了。所謂的「外表」並非指天生的美貌或身材，而是指我們選擇呈現給世界的樣子，這是一種最直接、最誠實的非語言溝通。 Since childhood, we are often told, "Appearance doesn't matter; what's inside counts!" While well-intentioned, promoting inner virtues, this adage is often misunderstood in the context of modern communication. The "appearance" we speak of is not about inherent beauty or physique; it is about the image we cho

當代的溝通藝術